Saturday, July 13, 2019

Emotional intelligence in hindi, emotional intelligence kya hai

Emotional intelligence in hindi :-yahan per aap padhenge emotionally intelligent kaise bane, emotional intelligence kya hai, emotional intelligence in hindi 


Hey friends.. Kya aap seriously jaan na chahte hai ki emotional intelligence kya hai ,emotionally intelligent kaise bane toh plZ iss article ko pura padhe. Taaki jis purpose se aap yaha aaye hai.. Wo purpose sahi maayne me pura ho sake. 

Aapne ek group dekha.. Jisme 10 log the.. Toh kya aap unse bina mile..bina unko samjhe ye bata sakte hai ki uss particular group me kitne log emotionally intelligent hai? Sayad aap bolenge ki 4..5 ya 6 log emotionally intelligent hai. Sirf ek tukka (เคคुเค•เค•ा) lagaker. Hehehe ๐Ÿ˜Š...jabki haqeeqat pata hai kya hai.. Haqeeqat ye hai ki uss particular group me mushkil se 2 log hi emotionally intelligent honge. Ji haa.. Yahi sach hai. Kyuki emotionally intelligent person bohot hi kam hote hai. Sab ke sab copy paste hote hai ek dusre ke.. Koi bhi khud ka original version nahi. ๐Ÿ˜Š...sayad abhi tak aapko meri baat samajh nhi aayi hogi.. Hehe.. O Hello.. aayegi bhi toh kaise.. Kyuki maine abhi tak kuch bataya bhi toh nahi hai. Jitna abhi tak padha hai wo bhi clear ho jayega. Per pahle ye jaano ki emotional intelligence hai kya 

Emotional intelligence in hindi 


Jab aapko gussa aata hai toh aap gussa ho jaate hai.. Jab aapko koi joke.. gossips achi lagti hai toh aap hasne lagte hai.. Jab aapko kisi ki baat ka bura lagta hai toh aap sad ho jaate hai. Ye hai emotions aapke.. Ye hai feelings aapki. Lakin aapko gussa dilata kon hai.. Koi dusra person hi toh dilata hai.. Lakin aapko hasata kon hai.. Koi dusra particular jokes.. Ya koi dusra banda Jo aapke saath hota hai.. Jo gossips ker raha hota hai.. Aap sad hote kyu hai.. Tabhi na.. Jab aapko jab koi dusra baat koi buri baat ker deta hai aapke saamne.. Jo aapne kabhi expect nhi ki thi usse. 

Yaha tak aapne kya baat note ki abhi?  Yahi note kiya hoga na ki aapko gussa bhi.. Udaas bhi aur hasata bhi koi dusra banda hi hai. Aapke emotions aapki feelings effect hoti rahti hai bar bar sirf kisi dusre bande ki wajah se. Aapke emotions aapke hi control me nhi hai. Aur jab koi bhi banda aapko easily gussa dila sakta hai.. bhadka sakta hai.. Hasaa sakta hai.. Sad feel kerwa sakta hai.. Ya rula sakta hai. Iska sidha sa matlab ye hai ki aap emotionally intelligent nahi hai.. Balki emotionally fool hai. Kyuki aapke khud ke emotions feelings aapke control me hone chahiye.. Per haqeeqat ye hai ki aapke personal Feelings emotions hoti akser dusro ke control me hai. Aur emotionally intelligent banda wo hota hai jiske apni feelings emotions khud ke control me hoti hai. Got it ๐Ÿ˜Š

Dusri baat ye suno jra.. Jab aap chhote se the 4-5 saal ke.. Uss waqt aapko apni emotions thik se express bhi nahi krni aati thi. Haa haste bohot the.. Jaha hasna banta bhi na ho.. Jaise ki kuch bachche bewajah hi haste rahte hai. Aur kabhi kabhi rote bhi bohot the.. Waha per.. Jaha rona banta bhi na ho... Thik waise hi.. Jaise ek chhota bachcha kabhi kabhi bewajah hi rota rahta hai. Ya ye kahu ki ek jra si baat per utna jyada ro deta hai jaha per rona toh na ke braber hi tha. Bas udaasi se kaam chal sakta tha.. Hehehe ๐Ÿ˜…....Toh yaha per aapne kya note kiya abhi tak ki bachpan me.. Bohot hi chhoti si age me toh hme ye tak nahi pata hota ki kab hasu.. Kab ro lu.. Kab udaas ho jaau. Per jaise jaise hamari age badhti jaati hai.. Hum bade hote jaate hai.. Toh kitna hasna hai. Kitna aur kaha gussa krna hai. Kitna aur kaha rona hai.. Ya bura maan na hai toh ye sab toh hum sikhte hai ek dusre ko dekhker. Ab ye ek dusre kon hai.. Ye hai hmari family.. Hmare friends.. Jinko dekhker hum ye sikhte hai bachpan me ki uss particular thing per hme itna khush hona chahiye. Uss baat per hme bura maan na ya gussa krna chahiye. Kis joke per sirf halki si smile banti hai ya ek big laughing banti hai. Toh ye sab toh hum sikhte hai ek dusre ko dekhker.

Emotional intelligence in hindi 


Ek example deta hu chhota sa.. Aaj aap market gye.. Aapne dekha ki market me ek chhota sa accident ho gya ..ek bike wale ne dusre bike wale ko takker maar di.. Then jhagda ho gya. Toh ek ne kya kiya ki.. Gusse me aaker dusre ka sar for diya. Uss time waha jo kam age ke ladke honge aaspaas ..umne se jo thode Rowdy nature ke ladke honge..wo impress Ho gye honge uss bande ko dekhker jisne sar fod diya dusre bike wale ka. Hehehe ๐Ÿ˜Š....aur wo kam age ke ladke uss bike wale bande jaisa tough Rowdy banne ki sochenge. Aur kal ko jab unke saath bhi aisa hi scene banta hai ki unka kisi bike wale se takker ho gyi toh aur wo bike wala thoda kamjor hua toh.. Wo ladke bhi fir sar fodne ka hi sochenge.

Yahan per aapne kya note kiya abhi ki aaj hum jo react kerte hai.. Jis bhi ways se apne feelings emotions ko express krte hai saamne wale ke saamne. Wo sab hum kisi na kisi ko dekhker hi sikhte hai. Tabhi toh maine uper ek line likhi thi ki her koi copy paste hai ek dusre ka.. Koi bhi khud ka original version nahi.

Khud ka original version banda.. Ya emotionally intelligent banda wo hota hai.. Jo accident ko sirf accident hi samjhe. Aur saamne wale ko bhi ye samjhaane ki koshish kre ki bai ye accident hai bas. Dont make it personnel jhagda. Hehehe ๐Ÿ˜….

Khud ke gusse per.. Sadness per.. I mean ye ki khud ke her emotions per jiska khud ka control ho.. Aur Jo dusro ko bhi control krna jaanta ho.. Wo hota hai emotionally intelligent person.

Aaj aapki biwi ya girlfriend.. Whatever.. Aapko hasaati hai toh aap has lete hai. Hasna achi baat hai. Hmesa haste rahna chahiye. Usko problem hoti hai toh aap paresaan ho jaate hai.. Ye bhi thik hai bai. Kyuki khud ki private biwi ya gf hai.. Paresaan hum nahi toh kya saala padoshi hoga..hehe ๐Ÿ˜…..yaha tak bhi thik hai. Lakin jab wo drame krti hai.. Jhut bolti hai.. Bewakuf banati hai.. Jaha aapki mistake na bhi ho waha aapko sorry bulwati hai.. Apne ego ko satisfy krne ke liye aapko jhukaane ki koshish krti hai ..aur aap uske dramo ko kabhi samajhne ki koshish tak hi nhi krte.. Haa lakin dukhi her roj ho jaate ho. Uski wajah se. Aapko gussa aata hai her roj.. Aap frustrated rahne lagte hai. Life buri si lagne lagti hai.. Ye sab condition ho jaati hai ek emotionally fool person ki.

Aisi situation me ek emotionally intelligent person.. Study krega saara case. Kyuki dukhi ya sad hone ya gussa aane se pahle wo ye sochta hai ki wo Jo gussa kerne wala.. Kya wo right reaction hai uska ya kahi khamkha me aweyin hi gussa krne jaa raha hai. Thik aise hi sad bhi saara case samajhne ke baad hi hoga agar waha sad ..hona natural hai. Werna wo yahi think krega ki drame toh wo krti hai. Mai kyu paresaan hota phiru boss. ๐Ÿ˜Š...udaasi iss baat ko leker aayegi ki galat ladki ko gf ya biwi bana liya. Haa yaha per sad hona banta hai.

I hope itna sab detail me padh lene ke baad aap ye jaan gye honge ki emotional intelligence Kya hai. 

Dear loving.. Agar aapko ye post achi lagi toh plZ isko share kre apne friends,, relatives me. Taaki her emotional fool bande tak ye baat pahunche. Hehehe ๐Ÿ˜…

This post was about emotional intelligence in hindi.. Emotional intelligence kya hai. 


Emotional intelligence in hindi 


Emotional intelligence in hindi

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