Sunday, May 19, 2019

Frustrated ho kya, signs you are frustrated, frustration kya hai, frustrated life hindi

Frustrated :-Kya aap frustrated hai? Ye article frustrated logo ki frustrated life ko mind kerte hue likha gya hai. Isliye iss article ko pura padhe. Taaki aapko achi motivation mil sake 😊


Frustrated ho kya


                 Frustrated ho kya 


Actually kuch logo ko frustration ka sahi matlab nhi pata hota. Isliye maine abhi ye question kiya aapse ki aap frustrated hai kya? Kuch log frustration ka matlab, gussa aana ,sad hona, tension me rahna samajhte hai. Per dear, frustrated hone ka sahi matlab ye nhi hai. Kyuki gussa aata hai  toh thodi der baad chala bhi jaata hai, thik aise hi sadness bhi temporary hoti hai, aur tension ka bhi same funda, solution mila toh tension bhi khtm. Aaiye ab sahi matlab jaante hai frustration ka. 

               Frustration kya hai 


Ek insaan frustrated tab kahlata hai, jab uske apni hi ki koi cheez uske control se baaher ho gyi ho. For example,Ek bande ne  kisi important kaam ke liye kaafi taiyari ki, jis kaam se wo love krta hai ,kaafi mehnat ki uss kaam ke liye, aur uss kaam se iss bande ko kaafi expectations thi, aur wo bande ko khud per acha khasa confidence bhi tha ki wo easily isko ker sakta hai. Believe bhi tha. But in last, situation aisi ban gyi ki wo uss kaam ko ker hi nhi paaya, reason chahe koi b ho na krne ka. Per nhi ker paaya. Phir taiyari ki, achi khasi mehnat phir se ki. But phir se koi na koi ghar ki tension beech me aa gyi toh nhi ker paaya. Iss tarah wo lagataar bar bar fail hota gya. Haa waise wo banda kaabil hai. Uss kaam ko easily ker bhi sakta hai. Per jaise hi time aata hai uss kaam ko krne ka toh koi na koi syapa uski life me aa jaata hai. Aur wo gir jaata hai ,fail ho jaata hai. 

Aise me iss bande ko kya aayega, btao jra. Isko aayega gussa, aur gussa kyu aayega, btao jra, gussa isliye aayega, kyuki itni mehnat bhi ki uss kaam ko krne ke liye, per ye life ke dusre syape, problem beech me tapak hi padte hai. Aur ye gussa kya temporary rahega, ye toh btao jra, ye gussa tab tak rahega, jab tak ki wo uss kaam ko ker nhi leta pura. 

Iss bande ki dusri feeling kya hogi, iss situation me? Ab wo sad bhi rahne lagega, kyuki jis kaam se wo pyar krta hai, wo kaam ki kaha pura hua hai toh sadness toh aayegi hi. Ab ye btao kya ye sadness thodi der ki hai? Ji Nhi,, ye sadness tab jayegi completely jab tak wo apna kaam pura nhi ker leta ya phir give up hi ker ke baith jaaye. Koi dusre kaam pe dhyan de. 

Ab ye btao iss bande ko jo tension rahti hai, wo kitne hrs. ki hai. 4hrs. Ki hai ya 5hrs. Ki. Actually jis cheez se hme pyar ho toh uske liye bas thode se hrs. tension me rahna jaayaz baat nhi hogi. Ye tension bhi tab khtm hoti hai. Ya toh uss kaam se bewafai ker do, ya usko pura ker do. 

Aur jab ek insaan ko dheere dheere gusse ki, sadness ki aur tension naam ki sui chubhti rahti hai toh wo jakhmi ho jaata hai ander se. Jab uske haath se saara control hi nikel jaaye unn cheezo per se, jinse wo beyhadd pyar krta hai. Aur wo cheeze uski hi hai. Toh aise me insaan frustrated rahne lagta hai. 

Yha maine example me kisi particular kaam, jisse ki love ho, usko leker aapko frustration ka matlab bataya, waise aur bhi cheeze hai ek insaan ki life me Jo usko frustrated bana deti hai. Jaise ki kisi Ladki ki chahat rakhna ,per usko paa nhi sake toh frustrated hona normal si baat hai. Apne kisi passion ya dreams me unsuccessful rahna bhi ek insaan ko frustrated bana deti hai. Wo kaafi jakhmi sa ho jaata hai.

           Signs, you are  Frustrated


Kahne ka matlab ye hai sidha sa, Jo gussa, Jo sadness, Jo tensions limit se baaher ho jaaye toh wo phir ander se kaafi hurt ker deti hai insaan ko. Agar waqt rahte khud se compromise ker liya jaaye toh OK rahta hai, werna ye anger ye pains saath rahte hi hai. Tuta hua trust, chahe kisi ne bhi toda ho, khud ki nazar me bhi jhuka deta hai ek insaan ko confidence hi nhi rahta. Hum kaabil hai, knowledge hai kaafi, qualified hai, per phir bhi success nhi ho paate toh aise me bada dard hota hai ki koi cheez ke liye hum bane hai aur wo hmari hi nhi ho paayi. Koi ladki per trust kiya, pyar, care, time, attention sab diya, phir bhi cheat ker jaaye toh koi bhi banda frustrated ho hi jaata hai. Usko sab kuch bakwaas sa lagne lagta hai. 

Uska behave hi badal jaata hai :-Normal behave nhi hota ek frustrated bande ka. Wo aapke saamne hote hue bhi na hone ke braber hi hota hai, kyuki wo khoya sa rahta hai. Her waqt. 

Chidchida sa rahne lagta hai :-uska jab khud ka mood ho toh hasi majaak ker leta hai, per agar mood kharab hai toh usko dusre ki hasi majaak buri lag jaati hai. 

Dimag khrab rahta hai akser :-dimag toh khrab hoga hi, kyuki sui chubhi jo thi, jakhmi jo ho gye the. Toh dimag khrab rahna toh normal si baat hai ek frustrated bande ke liye. Log kahte rahte hai na akser ki meri toh saali kismet hi khrab hai, wo log frustrated hi hai. 

Gussa bewaqt hi bina baat ke hi aata rahta hai :-Jab sab cheeze hmari apni hmare hi control se baaher ho toh gussa toh her waqt dimag me rahta hi hai. Lakin kaafi time beet jaane ke baad bhi agar yad kiya jaaye unn sabko toh bhi gussa aata hi hai. Jabki hmare apno ko lagta hai ki hum ab bewajah hi gusse me rahte hai.

                      Frustrated life 


Hmesa badbad बडबडाने ki si habit ho jaati hai :-Ek frustrated insaan kaleshi type ka sa ho jaata hai. Actually dekhne walo ko lgta hai ki pagal sa hai, hmesa badbad krta rahta hai, per usko ander se kaafi pains feel hote hai, jinhe wo control nhi ker paata. Aur jaise hi koi bat hoti hai aaspass Jo usko disturb kre toh usko acha nhi lagta phir. 

Usko akele rahna pasand Aane lagta hai :-Wo sab se duriya bana leta hai, khud ko akela rakhta hai. Kyuki usko ab comfortable hi nhi lagta dusro ke saath baithne me. Aur jinke saath rahta hai it means.. he really loves them. 

Sardard rahna, raato ko jaagna, bhook na lagna ye sab chalta hai frustration me :-Ek normal banda ye sab kaam khane ka ho ya sone ka ho, time per ker leta hai. Per frustrated banda apni frustration ke control me hota hai. Wo khana bhi tab khayega jab yaad aa jaaye ki kuch kha leta hu, aur soyega bhi tab jab jaagna bas me na rahe. 

Over thinking bhi krne lagta hai :-saara din socha uska job ho jaata hai, Subah uthte hi socho, saam ko sone se pahle bhi sochte raho. Baaki kaam baad me. 

Ye hoti hai frustration. I hope ab aap ache se samajh gye honge ki frustrated hona kya hota hai. Iss per kaise overcome kiya jaaye, agar aap jaan na chahte hai toh comment kare, taaki mai iss topic per bhi article likh saku. Till then, take care my loving friends. Don't forget to share it. 

This article was about frustrated ho kya? Frustration kya hai? Signs, you are frustrated. 


                  Frustrated ho kya? 


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