Sunday, December 23, 2018

Akelapan kya hota hai, akelapan in hindi, Reality of life

Akelapan kya hota hai :- Hey friends , welcome aap sabhi ka, ek bar phir se. Aaj mai aapko btaunga ki akelapan kya hota hai. Iss article ko pura padhe, taaki aapko puri baat achhe se samajh aaye.

   Akelapan kya hota hai  < Reality of life >

Akelapan kya hota hai :-Akelapan ek feeling hai, ek ehsaas hai. Isko feeling isliye kaha jaata hai, kyuki aap logo ne suna hoga kuch logo ki jubaan se jab wo kahte hai ki mai mahfilo me toh rahta hu, per phir bhi akela hai, uss waqt aapko bhi mind me ye question aata hoga ki, mahfilo me rahne ke bawjud bhi akela kaise hua, toh unki baat ka matlab yhi hota hai ki unhe ye feel hota h ki wo akele hai. Isliye akelapan ek feeling hai, jise mahsus hota h ye feel, wo khud ko akela btata hai. Ab sawal ye hai ki ye feeling kyu hoti hai?  Why we feel loneliness?  Kuch aisi wajah se hoti hai ki insaan akelapan mahsus krne lgta hai. Wo wajah kya hai, chaliye jaante hai.

     Akelapan kya hota hai <Reality of life> 


1. Jab koi sunta nhi hai :-kuch logo ki life me kabhi kabhi aisa bhi time aata hai ki unhe koi sunne wala nhi hota. Dilo dimag me bohot saari baate hoti hai, lakin koi bhi aisa nhi hota jisko share ki jaa sake. Wase toh her insaan ki apni ek family hoti hai, kaafi bada friends circle bhi hota hai, rishtedaar bhi hote hai, lakin kuch baate aisi hoti hai Jo na toh family se share ki jaa sakti, na hi rishtedaaro se. Unke liye chahiye hota hai koi sacha sa achha sa dost. Kuch logo itne bedkismet hote hai ki unke dost toh kaafi hote hai, lakin sacha koi bhi nhi, sab matlabi hote hai. Toh aise logo ko akser aisi situation jhelni padti hai ki wo apni personnel baate, apne dil ke dard, apni problems,tensions aur apne man ki baat kisi ko share hi nhi ker paate. Agar kosis bhi krte hai kisi per trust ker ke unko share krne ki toh phir ya toh saamne wala ansuna ker deta hai  ya phir kisi Tarah ka aisa negative type react krta h ki phir share krne wala insaan dubara usko kabhi share hi nhi ker paata. Aur jab in last ye situation ban jaati h ki koi bhi nhi jisko hum share ker sake apne dil ki baat toh akelapan feel hone lagta hai.

     Akelapan kya hota hai <Reality of life> 

2.jab koi samajhta nhi hai :-her insaan chahta hai ki uski life me koi na koi aisa banda jarur ho, Jo usko samajh sake. Hum ache hai ya bure hai,ye baat humse behter koi aur bhi jaanta ho toh wo banda hmare liye bohot hi special hota hai. Wo bestie bhi hota hai aur ek wellwisher bhi .Saath me ek teacher bhi. Jo hme life ke her kadam per motivate krta rahta hai. Ye koi bhi ho sakta hai, aapki family se bhi ,ya koi friend bhi. Ab jinke naseeb me aise log hote hai wo log kaafi lucky hote hai. Lakin aise bhi log hai jinke aaspaas toh bohot saare log hai, lakin unhe samajhne wala koi nhi. Agar hmari ek chhoti si galti ki wajah se hum bure kahlaate hai ek do logo ki nazar me toh chalta hai, jyada bura nhi lgta. Lakin agar saare hi hmari chhoti si galti ko koi mahapaap samajhker hme bura samajhne lagte hai toh aise me bohot hi ganda feel hota hai. Jin logo ke saath aise halaat ban jaate hai, wo log akelapan mahsus kerne lagte hai.

   Akelapan kya hota hai <Reality of life > 


3.jab koi parwaah nhi krta ho :- ek insaan ko hmesa koi na koi caretaker chahiye hota hai .Jab wo chhota bachcha hota hai toh uske maa baap aur uski family uska bohot achhe se khyal rakhte hai. Lakin jase ki umar badhti jaati hai, toh pyar aur khyal me akser kamiya aa jaati hai. Kyuki bachpan me hum ache hote hai ya bure hote hai, iss baat per koi jyada dhyan nhi deta. Agar koi galti gustaakhi hum ker bhi de agar bachpan me toh her koi bachcha samajhker maaf bhi ker deta hai. Aur na toh pyar me kami aati hai aur na hi khyal me. Lakin bachpan me mila pyar jawani tak nhi rahta. Maa baap bhi duniyadari nibhaane me lage rahte hai. Ghar me aajkel jawan bachcho se utni hi baate ki jaati h, jitna ki jaruri ho. Aur unke kandho pe bohot saara bojh daal diya jaata hai. Phir pahle wali baat nhi rahti. Kuch maa baap aisa isliye krte h taaki responsibility milne per bachcho me samajh aayegi, lakin kuch aisa krne ke baad apne bachcho ko hi bhul jaate hai. Toh aisi situation jab ban jaaye ki koi parwaah hi na kre toh akelapan feel hone lgta hai.


    Akelapan kya hota hai <Reality of life >


Ye hota hai akelapan.

 Aise hi aur bhi article aapko hmare label <Reality of life > me padhne ko milenge. 

It's a hope Ki ye article aapko pasand aaya hoga .Aur agar aapka koi dost jaan na chahta hai ki Akelapan kya hota hai toh usko ye article share jarur kre. Aur agar aap chahte hai akelepan ko kaise deal kre toh plZ comment ker ke jarur btana. I will write another article on this. 

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